Christians
should always be looking for ways to improve their sex lives. Variety is very
important. There are also other areas of intimacy which are very important to
implement to ensure outstanding Christian sex. The key is to always keep things
fresh and make sure you are having exciting and joyous Christian sex!
Here are 4 tips for better Christian sex.
- Initiate Sex! Often there is one partner who is the one who will initiate sex. This can be annoying and it can deprive you of many opportunities for becoming intimate more often. Make sure that each of you spend equal time at initiating intimacy.
2. Spontaneous
and Special! What separates Christian sex from intimacy which many non
religious based couples engage in, is the importance and deep feelings that
Christians place on being intimate with one another. Not those other couples
don't place these qualities on sex, it's that Christians ALWAYS place deep
meaning with sexual intimacy. Now this can be a negative thing in that it may
take away from spontaneity. But it doesn't have to. You can still be
spontaneous and make sex incredibly special at the same time. It takes practice,
to really place yourself in the deep loving state right in the moment, but
since spontaneous sex is so important to keeping your intimate life fresh and
exciting, it's worth practicing and mastering.
3. Use Sex Toys! It's
a myth that sex toys aren't allowed in Christian intimacy. Of course anything
that causes harm should not be allowed, but in general sex toys are acceptable.
Start out with oils and lotions, then get into creams and edibles. These are
easy starting points to aid in your sexual intimacy improvement with the use of
sex toys.
4. Hit the
Shower! Christians can tend to get into routine very easily. Perhaps that
stems from Church on Sunday. We are so used to having that constant Sunday mass
throughout our lives, that often times we find ourselves set in routine in many
other areas of life. This can go for intimacy as well. We associate the bedroom
with intimacy It becomes routine.. But it's true, this is often the most
convenient and private area to engage in intimacy. An easy way to really mix
things up, add variety, and experience exciting sex, is by doing it in the
shower. This can really spice things up and add that much needed variation in
your sex life.
Finally, you
should seek out a good Christian sex guide which will provide you with all
kinds of ways to improve intimacy, including different positions and Christian
safe sex techniques. Check out this guide to see what I mean - http://www.complaintsboard.com/complaints/model-quality-introductions-beverly-hills-california-c458853.html
